ouijevis //

I am going to BC in 26 more days.

At first I wasn't sure, if I was moving too fast. But now, I really dont care, Im good with all of it. I was reading a Blog, I forget who's it was, but it mentioned how you should BC earlier. AND THAT IS JUST WHAT I'LL DO.

Im extremely excited.

ARE YOU?

Well, it dosent really matter how excited you are.
no offense, but you get what i mean.

I am supposed to be sleeping right now, but oh well. I thought i should update y'all.
But I'm going to bed now.

-SHARZ <3333

Before I begin...
http://www.naturalhairdigest.com/
tis pretty good.



Anyway.
I was on the bus Friday afternoon, going home from school.
I saw a girl, around my age, and her hair was B-E-A-YOUUUTIFULL
I thought is was fake at first, but then she bent her head, and there were definitely no tracks anywhere.
Her hair was natural and, it was probably straw set or something...but it was so pretty and hanging down almost to her shoulders.

I was jealous. haha.

But proud too.


Taken from http://www.thecoilreview.com
February 2, 2009

New Growth: The Myth Slasher Series
By: Yardley Messeroux

Last month, I conducted a natural hair & beauty workshop for a young girl's program in Brooklyn, NY. The girls were pretty interested in the topic, but they weren't the only ones. At least 7 program staff members attended and were very vocal about their interest in natural hair. They had some good comments and questions, but it's when the topic of natural hair myths came up, was when things got real.

All types of myths about natural hair were addressed—the texture and its characteristics, misconceptions of image, and even the –N– word, "Nappy". Information was provided that either confirmed, but mostly, contradicted the myths, and The Coil Review would like to share that information with you too!

The Myth Slasher Series of New Growth is a multi-part series that will feature myths that have lingered for way too long and need to be slashed onces and for all. Natural newbies, this is The Myth Slasher Series for healthy new growth--both hair and perspective.

The Myth: Natural hair is rough to the touch.
The Myth Slasher: True. Natural hair can feel rough to the touch if not properly maintained and nurtured. In a nutshell, keep your hair moisturized and conditioned and it won't feel rough. That was easy!

The Myth: Natural hair is tough by nature.
The Myth Slasher: False. Coily hair is the most delicate texture there is. The bends of each coil is a potential breaking point, so natural hair needs to be treated gently, with care.

The Myth: You must apply lots of grease to your hair and scalp for moisture.
The Myth Slasher: False. Grease is for cars, but not for the hair or the scalp. "Grease" usually refers to petroleum jelly-like products that people of color swear by for a dry scalp treatment. Let's break out of that people. Many petroleum jelly-like greases that are often called, hairdress, hair food or an oil based moisturizing conditioner, have synthetic/man-made lubricants such as mineral oil, petrolatum/petroleum. Those are cheap lubricants that give false hope of moisture, but will not truly deliver.

Preview to The Myth Slasher for March...
The Myth: People with natural hair are more eclectic than people that aren’t. Hmmm...

-sharz.
<33>

So..

It was like 1:43 am.
I was feeling up my new growth.

As I was caressing the kinks, I thought to myself....
"I wonder if it's okay to snip off a kinky twist....then snip off some relaxed ends?"
So I got up and went to the bathroom.
I snipped off a twist in the middle of my head, so no one would notice...
then I BCed that tiny bit of hair. (not really a tiny bit, the twists are quite large/medium in the middle)

I was all smiles.
It felt pretty good....the scab hair didnt, but the rest did.
I watered it and then applied castor oil.

I think I did good thing. lol.
Now i know that BCing right away is NOT for me.
haha.

I dont quite have enought hair yet, to BC.
I think I may have to wait for June....
7-8 months transition seems better.
(But if i do get frustrated im cutting it.)


Im going to use that bit of kinky hair to determine how much growth i have or should have....
see how that one is growing...
see if its growing faster than the others...
so on and so forth.

=]
<333
-sharz. (i made a vid but too lazy to post it right now)

So I havent been posting many motivational pictures lately..so I'm doing that...
Also I found some more sites that are VERY helpful and educational for Naturals and Transitioners.

http://www.tytecurl.com/
http://ourhair.net/
http://soulcommune.ning.com/

Ok folks.

I was on a site called Natural Hair Care Guide (naturalhaircareguide.com), and came across some very good info that i decided to share this afternoon.

12 Hair Tips For Transitioners:(the people who, like me, decided to grow out their relaxer...)

General Tips Realize your hair will shed.If you see some relaxed ends in your comb don't be alarmed it is part of the process. Choose styles that keep your hair handling to a minimum.This will help to keep breakage to a minimum. If you can avoid messing with your hair every day, do so. There are styles that last a week or more. And some that you can wash your hair with them in. Avoid styles that will cause your hair to tangle. An example of this would be getting tiny braids. They can be a pain to get out when you have straight hair. The can be doubly frustrating when your hair is two texture. Avoid using afro kinky "cotton spiral" hair for kinky twists. This hair look quite similar to natural tightly coiled hair. It can actually start to tangle with your new growth. I've heard horror stories of ladies having to spend hours extra taking it out. Steer clear while transitioning if you still have relaxed ends. Have your braids touched up your braids between appointments. If you are using braids to transition, get the front and sides touched up between braiding. This is where a lot of product and gunk builds up. Having it touched up every two weeks between full braidings will keep your hair looking nice and keep the edges from being so tangled when your take them down. Always detangle from tip to end. Keep your hair moisturized. When Washing . . . Try to avoid tangling your hair while washing it.Be gently with your hair. Think of it as a cashmere sweater and not a dirty pair of work pants. Smooth on products from root to end. Blot dry. Trimming Set a cutting/trimming schedule. Only use hair scissors to trim your ends.Never cut anything else with those scissors. If you feel uncomfortable trimming your ends enlist the help of a friend or go to a salon.

Okays...on to the transitioning FACTS ("i only picked the ones that are not so obvious...well at least to me")

What is scab hair?
Scab hair is a term that refers to the hair that is just below the scalp that has been damaged because of the relaxers/perms. This type of hair may be drier and harder to style. It is not your actual hair but the remnants of the relaxing process. You may or may not experience this condition. It all depends on how often and how long you relaxed your hair before you decided to go natural.

What is ACV and what does it do?
ACV stands for apple cider vinegar. You can make a rinse with it by mixing 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar with a cup of water you would pour this over you hair as your final rinse. The rinse is mildly acidic so it helps balances you scalps pH. It closes the cuticle scales on your hairs surface which helps your hair to feel softer and makes light reflect off your hairs surface giving your hair a natural shine. It also can help to remove products that build up on the hairs shaft which can make hair look dull.


Are there any safe shampoos?
Yes there are several sulfate free shampoos and shampoos that are better than what you usually find in the store you can find a list of them here http://www.longhaircommunity.com/forums/showthread.php?t=34009

What is a co-wash or no-poo?
This is using conditioner or something other than of shampoo to wash your hair. Shampoos have harsh chemicals that can be drying and damaging to your hair. You can find more information about going shampoo free here.

What should I look for in a good moisturizer?
Water at the top of the list is a good sign. Some good natural moisturizers are aloe vera gel and shea butter.

How often should I wash my hair?
Natural hair loves water, so you can wash it as much as you like as long as you are not using regular shampoos (those with sulfates). Co-Washing will get your hair clean and leave it soft and easy to detangle (very important when you are working with two different hair types.)


How often should I trim my hair while I am transitioning?
An inch a month seems to be the norm. If you will be trimming your ends yourself make sure that you invest in a good pair of hair trimming scissors. Remember to only use your hair scissors to trim your hair. Cutting other things will dull them.

Why is my scalp itching?
There are many reason that you scalp could be itching. It could be reacting to the products that you are using. It could be dry. It could be just getting use to your new hair routine.


Whoo!
Great News!
One of my friends passed by my blog, and while i was on msn she said
"sharifa, i totally support you cutting you hair, i saw your blog and didnt know you were so passionate about it. I support you."

I felt really good.

I mean, i know i said i didn't care but, it is always relieving to know someone understands you.
You know?

So progress has been made!



Anyway.

Motivational speakers came to our school today, to talk to us about Darfur.
after learning about this, i actually felt really pissed off, the this shit is happening in our world. There are so many things that people worry about, small things like "what a i gonna wear?", "what should i have with this sandwich" to "how am i gonna feed my children" and "what shall happen to our planet?"

Honestly..

I never thought Darfur was bad...
like i thought it was the same as everywhere else...
bad, but the same.

Its not, it is totally DAMN different and HORRIBLE.
THOUSANDS/MILLIONS are DYING...its a damn genocide down there...the man Sudan is just killing them off like rats and not giving a damn, and here we are worrying about shit like money, which is important...

but seriously, is it as important as worrying about how you will die, when, how soon, who else, will you get raped in a minute?

IMAGINE THE MONSTROSITY.
The bullshit that goes on.
The evil minds of SOME people.

after the presentation I wanted to make a difference...but then realized i didnt have the resources. but i may get my friend to come with me and stand up...she actually call our PM today...
the thing is, will he listen?
will he give a damn?
will he do something?

probably not.

sometimes it feels like they are just trying to kill black people all over from different angles.

Life is hard to us here in our LITTLE (less populated)developed countries...
While Life is a straight up CHEATING/ABUSING/BITCH ASS husband to other BIG(a lot of population) developing countries.

if only everyone could help, just once in our lazy lives, just help out , do some good and try. At least try, and know you tried your very best.

cause though people dont belive it, sometimes one action...
one simple action of random kindness...
can change the world.



-SHARZ <3